I can only view this from the point of being a “male.” It sucks for us too. Our friends die earlier. We lose our physical strength and dexterity and somewhat abandon “sports” (our non-lethal substitute for war). But what is worse is the loss of the “team,” “group,” etc. 9where we bond and accomplish some task or project. Much of what we did to make a living and provide no longer exists. Even teaching is blunted as the basics and original wisdom has been jettisoned in the passion to erase the past. Prayer is still good however, although the “answers” are still not always forthcoming, ha, ha.
Oh my goodness, that's for sure. I believe it how it sucks for you. You've offered some good insights into what it's like for men. Thank you. I know men often meet at McDonalds to talk. My husband occasionally meets with a former co-worker but that's about it. I hear you on prayer and answers not always forthcoming. And thank you for stopping by.
I liked your comment, Katie, about being able to luxuriate in the love of our Father God! Did I tell you that the last month of last year He told me He'd be for me the papa I never had?
I love this change of wording that offers a change of perspective, Katie. I’m going to start using the word “elder” as often as o can! As a person who works with a lot of “elders,” I add my appreciation for all the wisdom they hold!
Funny how changes in wording can change our perspective. I would imagine you have a lot of stories from your work with elders. The Lord be with you in that work. Thank you for your kind words.
Thank you for your encouragement to pray. At 85 I am an elder! I still enjoy the adventure with the Eternal Trinity who live in me and I in them. I am learning to listen, to follow, and to rest in being Their beloved. Thank you, Katie, for your encouragement to us.
You sure are an Elder with a capital E! I have so appreciated your wisdom and encouragement. Me too on learning to rest in being their beloved. It's extraordinary to luxuriate in that love. So very good to hear from you.
You've opened up new worlds to me -- this time, worm grunting! Thank you!
Well that was on CBS Sunday morning just as I was thinking about this essay.
I can only view this from the point of being a “male.” It sucks for us too. Our friends die earlier. We lose our physical strength and dexterity and somewhat abandon “sports” (our non-lethal substitute for war). But what is worse is the loss of the “team,” “group,” etc. 9where we bond and accomplish some task or project. Much of what we did to make a living and provide no longer exists. Even teaching is blunted as the basics and original wisdom has been jettisoned in the passion to erase the past. Prayer is still good however, although the “answers” are still not always forthcoming, ha, ha.
Oh my goodness, that's for sure. I believe it how it sucks for you. You've offered some good insights into what it's like for men. Thank you. I know men often meet at McDonalds to talk. My husband occasionally meets with a former co-worker but that's about it. I hear you on prayer and answers not always forthcoming. And thank you for stopping by.
I liked your comment, Katie, about being able to luxuriate in the love of our Father God! Did I tell you that the last month of last year He told me He'd be for me the papa I never had?
I don't think you told me that. How wonderful to hear that from him, and how wonderful to see and feel how he plays that out in your life.
I love this change of wording that offers a change of perspective, Katie. I’m going to start using the word “elder” as often as o can! As a person who works with a lot of “elders,” I add my appreciation for all the wisdom they hold!
Funny how changes in wording can change our perspective. I would imagine you have a lot of stories from your work with elders. The Lord be with you in that work. Thank you for your kind words.
Thank you for your encouragement to pray. At 85 I am an elder! I still enjoy the adventure with the Eternal Trinity who live in me and I in them. I am learning to listen, to follow, and to rest in being Their beloved. Thank you, Katie, for your encouragement to us.
You sure are an Elder with a capital E! I have so appreciated your wisdom and encouragement. Me too on learning to rest in being their beloved. It's extraordinary to luxuriate in that love. So very good to hear from you.
I love it and agree
Thank you so much for your kind words...Good to hear from you. I remember you often in my prayers.